22 February 2015

BLOGGING: EXPECTATION VS. REALITY

This is probably the realest post I've done. These days with blogging it feels like there's a big pressure to have this Instagram worthy life and in reality, we’re all normal and we eat crisp sandwiches and use dry shampoo for a little longer than we should. I'm okay with having a bit of a giggle at my less than glamorous side, so here goes with a few 'blogging realities'.

Also a little disclaimer - I am definitely not suggesting the 'expectation' is yours truly or sticking my fishing rod out for compliments. I just thought this might be a good representation. Anyhoo, enjoy!

Good skin day VS. Breakouts

MAKEUP IS A BEAUTIFUL THING. I haven't got the worst skin in the world, but I still have acne breakouts alongside scars from previous skin disasters. The reality is that plenty of makeup, good lighting and filters all help a sister out.

Everything looking schmancy VS. MESS

For me, getting that 'everything in place' sort of picture takes a whole lot of mess. I take pictures like this on a piece of  MDF painted white which ends up surrounded by a plethora of crap that I've spread about in the process. The bit that's in shot is always a tiny portion of the chaos I've created & I'd like to think that I'm not the only blogger that leaves a trail of disruption along the way.

Posing like a poseymcposeron VS. Not so flattering

LOL. Best picture of me ever. Yeah, this is a bit of an exaggeration but the point I'm trying to make is that for every good picture there will be a load more that aren't so great. Knowing how to stand and what angle works well makes the world of difference.. I’m okay with my figure, but any sort of thigh gap can easily disappear and be quickly replaced with a sticky-out food baby. We all have good and bad pictures and I can be honest and say that some of the truly horrifying ones won’t make it as far as the internet.

Yummy food VS. This

Bloggers don't eat Pinterest-perfect food everyday. I wish we did, but we don't. Admittedly, I am the sort that always takes pictures of food to upload on social.. When it's something that looks tasty. Does anyone want to see a picture of the Pot Noodle sandwich (yes, I'm RANK..) I’m having for lunch on Instagram? I highly doubt it. It's not all quinoa porridge and amazing triple stacked burgers.. A lot of the time it's more fish finger sandwiches & microwave noodles. NOM.

Heels VS. Slippers

It's rare that I'm actually wearing the outfit that I'm typing up about. I take the vast majority of my blog pictures at the weekend, which means I mostly finish off posts at a later date. Usually I'll be typing up blog posts in my dressing gown and slippers with my hair in a scruffy bun. I love getting dolled up, but I also love pyjamas like Kanye loves Kanye.  


So, that's a peak into my 'real' side of blogging. Yeah, sometimes I am dolled up with my hair looking swishy, but there are also plenty of times when I'm in my dressing gown, eating Supernoodles and quickly skipping through the blog pictures where I look like a thumb.



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74 comments

  1. I actually LOVE this post, you had me laughing all the way through! SO true! haha

    www.saltandchic.com

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  2. This is such a great post, I think everyone needs little reminders every now and then that bloggers are real people too!

    Julia x

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  3. I absolutely love this post! xxx

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  4. this is such a funny post and soo true!! xx
    Marveling-Mind☀

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  5. I love this post! I think we are all guilty of becoming distanced from reality when it comes to how we are perceived on Social Media. It's really important to remember that everyone has bad days and moments they don't share on Social Media for obvious purposes.

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  6. Such a good post! Hardly anybody would admit we all do this ahaha x

    Justjuliettee.blogspot.com

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  7. Love this post! You're completely right with everything you say. Ha!
    Claire.x
    www.xclaireabella.blogspot.co.uk

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  8. ha i love these! food especially! xx

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  9. You made this so funny, I definitely think some people get wrapped up in this idea of glamour 24/7, it's nice to see someone so honest about it.

    Emily | emfranced

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  10. This is amazing! Really made me LOL haha. I often think that I'm the weird one who eats really uninteresting food, never looks as flawless as other bloggers and lives in my pyjamas so it's nice to know I'm not alone now.

    Dominique x

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  11. Haha Lydia, I loved this post! :)
    It's so true, although you look gorgeous before and after the make up!
    Particularly loving the idea of you putting a pot noodle sandwich on instagram!
    xx

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  12. Loved this post, so so relatable!
    Maddy, xo // UNSTITCHEDD

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  13. i love this post, so true though & i love how you used photographs to illustrate it xx

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  14. I really like this! Good to show the reality x
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  15. Such a good post! Everything is so true! x

    RobynCaitlin.com

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  16. Love this, especially the last one! I feel like i'm forever in my pyjamas and blogging :) Rebecca | www.rebeccamariee.blogspot.com xx

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  17. This is so funny! And your skin is lovely naturally. Great post :) x

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  18. This is such a great post! So true, especially the food one!

    Steph - http://nourishmeclean.blogspot.com

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  19. This is why I love you! So relatable and funny haha! :-) LIterally as soon as I have done my outfit posts (especially in winter) I bundle on the craziest and comfiest of clothes! I also love the whole positioning of things for pictures, aside from the area in the shot, is a complete mountain of crap that I have swiped out of the way!

    Loving this alternative posts, they're great! xx

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  20. I really loved this post, it's nice to occasionally see the real side to everyone as the blogging industry is almost becoming rather stereotyped

    infinity of fashion// Lucy Jane

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  21. All so true, I wear PJ's more than normal clothes haha!

    Honey Go-Lightly

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  22. Love this post and totally agree with everything you said, particularly the PJS!! I get into my loungewear the moment I walk in through the door! x

    Miss Imogen Smith

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  23. Found this really funny- all so true! I rarely look anything like my blog posts... x
    eleanor's adventures // UK Fashion & Beauty Blog

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  24. Hahha I loved the outfit one! I'm all posey and #vogue in photos on my blog, but when Im actually taking the photos 90% of them will have a double chin or mascara goop in the eye...

    Yet Another Makeup Blog.

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  25. Have to admit I got a bit of a giggle out of this, because I can relate to pretty much every point haha x

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  26. I love this post so much! I love it when blogging is seen in a lighthearted manner, because it sometimes worries me that people take it too seriously. You're not the first person I've heard to eat pot noodle sandwiches either, but I can't bring myself to try it.. x

    vanilladaisyblog.blogspot.com

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  27. Absolutely LOVE this post, so true! Made me giggle too.

    TINYTWISST.COM

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  28. I love the creativity of this post! Definitely gave me a chuckle because everything is so relatable. It's so easy to forget that behind every glamorous blog is the realness we should embrace x

    Bridie | Upon My Sleeve

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  29. The pose expectation is so me

    http://ky-lar.blogspot.com xx

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  30. Pot Noodle sandwiches = YES ! A long time favorite of mine. And I though I was the only one. I probably am the only one to include marmite...

    Petite Pomme

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  31. Love this post so much!
    The amount of times I have to drag myself out of my onesie, take my hair down and wack on a tonne of make up and seem like I've been like this all day is crazy haha x

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  32. haha I love this post! Especially the dressing gown shot... my god do I look mingin when I'm writing up my blog posts on a Sunday having not showered that day/with Friday's hair in a bun x
    georgie on the wall

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  33. This post is so funny and accurate! I loved the food one, I never cook pretty good and even when I do the kitchen is too messy for photos haha x
    - afashionoddity.blogspot.co.uk x

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  34. bahahah what an awesome post! i wrote something similar a while ago about food photos. i know you said you like to upload lunch to social media, but it just irks me - nothing personal! i will still "like" some food photos that are pretty, lol.

    i really enjoyed the expecation vs reality of the selfie, so funny.

    here's my post about food photos: https://whoisapneet.squarespace.com/blog/2014/3/1/film-diary-not-your-fancy-brunch

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  35. Really enjoyed this post. These are so true, and was a funny read.

    Jenn from jenniferjayne.blogspot.co.uk

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  36. This post was really funny ahahaha <3

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  37. I love this post, Lydia! SO TRUE! And you are truly not the only one who leaves a trail of mess after every blog post.. Guilty!

    xxx

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  38. Haha such a funny post! Agree with all of those points x
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  39. This is absolutely relatable! Particularly agree with the breakouts on skin part. Sadly I'm not a makeup pro, so I stick to posting pictures of others :(

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  40. This is such a great post and so so true!

    Natasha | www.ofthesaints.uk

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  41. hahah! love this! hilarious! xx

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  42. I love this post, gives you something to think about x

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  43. Love this post, very relatable haha :) you will find me snuggled in my dressing gown writing posts!

    www.lifeinthefashionlanee.blogspot.com

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  44. Love this post!! the last one it's so like me right now haha
    xx Carli

    http://lavidaseguncarli.blogspot.com.ar

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  45. I love this post! I had so much fun reading all the points you've made in here! The Pinterest-perfect really got me! Haha

    Janine
    Lime & Life

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  46. Love everything about this post! So many truths. =D

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  47. hahaha this is so true! I definitely need to document these little things more, it's so funny how much precision we put into making things pleasing to the eye! The last one is SO accurate haha, dressing gown, slippers, no makeup and hair scraped back is blogger uniform! Ix

    www.immymay.com

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  48. Love this post its so honest!

    I know when I finish a photo shoot its hair up pjs on!!

    http://www.stylecoverage.co.uk

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  49. I’m in love with your blog! It was so interesting to read your posts and also I’d like to say that you have beautiful photos! I’ll be happy to see you in my blog!)
    p.s. new post - how I met Victoria Beckham http://www.dianacloudlet.com/2015/02/victoria-beckham-zip-pouch-met-victoria-beckham.html

    Diana Cloudlet
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  50. Love this, so true chick. Very brave with some of these photos too
    Lauren
    livinginaboxx

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  51. This post is perfect - i love it!

    So true haha xx

    Steph

    Www.styleanonymousblog.blogspot.com

    Xxx

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  52. Love this post, the dressing gown picture is the image of me right now! xo

    www.hikinginheels.co.uk

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  53. I really like this post, it's nice to see into the daily part of your life we don't often see. I also laughed at the last sentence - Kayne loves Kayne, that was a good one.

    http://ahsocute.com

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  54. I have to say, this is the best post I've ever read ! Everything is so true and I needed to read something like this as I tend to compare myself to all those gorgeous instagramers with their amazing life, thinking I'm so lame even if I know it's not real, because no one's gonna show a bad selfie, normal food (like bread, for example), boring routine... So it kind of helped.
    (Ahah "like Kanye loves Kanye": EPIC !)
    Thank you. ;)

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  55. All SO true! Got to love this crazy world we're part of!
    xxx
    Chambray & Curls

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  56. Very great post! Thank you for sharing :) I know I always go on a whim and just take a bunch of pictures only one day, and then end up posting them scattered along the week.

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  57. Loved this post. Really appreciate the honesty here. I love the idea of you sitting there wearing heels and a dress typing away, putting your blogs together! Ha. Dressing gowns are definitely the comfortable way to go! Really well written post and you had me laughing all the way through x

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  58. Everything you said is so true. x

    www.savvysuperstylish.blogspot.co.uk

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  59. I love this post! Everything you mention in it is so true. Feels good to see we are all in the same boat <3
    Christina xox
    http://christinapirate.blogspot.ca

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  60. Lolol! Love love love it! Especially the Ramen Noodles

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  61. I love this post so much. It doesn't get much realer.
    Ps. I LOVE Pot Noodle Sandwiches

    fleurforfashion.blogspot.co.uk

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  62. Hahaha amazing and couldn't be truer! Whenever I attempt a selfie I take 400 pics to only use 1 and even that one I hate!! Great post :-) xx

    fashiontatt.blogspot.com

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  63. This post has got me in giggles! Amazing!

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  64. Hahhaha! I love that post! ♥

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  65. This is hilarious and so true!! Adore your blog!!! Gained a definite full time reader :)

    www.allthegoodblognamesweretaken.blogspot.co.uk
    Also, I've just started blogging so any comments etc are appreciated :)

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